There are those ‘deja vu-esque’ moments in life where you look upon a place, or person, and are hit with a wave of realisation. The latest of these for me occurred on Christmas Day this year as I visited my grandparents up in the hills. This staircase, while seemingly average, small and sturdy hosts many memories in the halls of my mind that strongly contradict these realities today.
My brother remarked how small the staircase seems now. We both remember it being gigantic as little kids, almost scary at times. Now we can clear it in 3 steps and all seems easy in the world. I remember wearing socks and struggling to get up and down on a cold winter’s night to join my family for dinner. I remember many things about this old staircase which gives it special significance, and a place in my mind.
The most entertaining memory I have of it occurred when I was around 12 years old. I was staying for the Christmas holidays and I had a crush on the neighbour’s daughter who was (I believe) 13. I worked up the courage and asked her over for movies and by some miracle she agreed – not bad right? Well after all that you’d think I could handle anything, and you’d be wrong. The day came and she arrived and by all accounts she was excited to watch this movie (Turned out to be X-men 1, so I mean… how good could it go?) but there was a snag… My nerves had got the best of me and I could not, for the life of me, will myself out of the bathroom and down this staircase. It seemed like I was at the summit of a great mountain. The hard part had surely been done – the scaling of such a peak, but as I now had the chance to descend I was paralyzed with fear. I hid up there for a good 45 minutes (or so my Grandma says) until I eventually plucked up the courage and began my walk downstairs… Issue was I forgot there were 7 steps and not 6. The sound of my body meeting the floor below was at once deafening and embarrassing and it brought around a great silence as I attempted to regather what dignity I might have left.
I can’t help but think back to that day and how the staircase betrayed me and I laugh. How could something so simple and innocent as this staircase house such powerful memories? I guess it’s what you do with an item that gives it value. This staircase is a friend and a foe and now that i’ve grown up and tamed it I can find the value in such experiences.
Merry Christmas everyone
Maybe this gave you some cheer 😉
Here are some photos of my Christmas Day spent running around my Grandparents garden with my new camera
Such a beautiful memory! We are reminded, yet again and again, that the simplest things in our life is always the place where we can find our precious memories! Thank you for sharing, you got me all melancholic now!
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Glad to be of some help 😛
It’s a fun stroll sometimes
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Nice one. Funny about the girl. You never said if you had braces or pimples back then. Staircases are nothing compare to the other two 😂
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Never really suffered from pimples and never needed braces 🙂
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Lucky you 😊
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Thanks for the reminder that there’s always a way back in time; I just have to look for the opportunities.
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Sometimes you don’t get a choice 🙂
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Such a beautiful memory 🙂
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Thank you 🙂
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A lovely post. You’re right: a thing in itself is a thing. Our experiences of it and the memories we hold are what give it meaning and make it a special thing in some way.
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🙂 Thank you
Yeah after I realised this I went around placing memories to items – it was fun
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LOL oh how we were silly when we were younger 🙂
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Love these personal memory type of posts! Beautifully written too.
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Thank you Alys 🙂
Appreciate it
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Nice clicks.
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Thanks !!!
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Beautiful post! Thank you for sharing 🙂
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❤ thank you
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Our moments of growing up are so precious, and nicely described.
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Thank you 🙂
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Travel is still the best education on so many levels so enjoy! Since becoming an ex-pat, I focus my adventures to exploring France with the ocassional trip into another part of Europe. We never know where our journeys will take us as long as we go with an open mind and heart. Bon voyage!
Thank you for choosing to follow one of my blogs. I do hope you enjoy the posts…
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Thank you Lea 🙂
I hope you join me on my adventure as I read about yours 😛
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Thank you! Alas, I am once again having issues with one of my blogs but do intend to keep at it until it lets me post again. Perhaps one day you will visit France. Yes, Paris is incredible but there is so much more to this Country. When I bought my house I chose a small village on the Mediterranean about an hour north of Spain. 🙂 Right now, I am enjoying a re-visit to Vietnam through one of your posts. I do love Vietnam and have some wonderful memories from my time there. 🙂
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One day I’ll definitely visit France… no doubt about it. Arrive for the food, stay for the beauty
Your house sounds like a dream!
Haha thank you, I did love Vietnam.
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There is so much here and few living elsewhere can begin to imagine so i intend to do exhaustive explorations… 😉
My house is in need of a lot of work, it was over 450 years old when I bought it a decade ago but there are many older ones. My village is amazing and the people I adore. It takes a whole 15-20 minutes to get to the beach. I am surrounded by vineyards but there are also olive trees, sections of pines, a cascade (waterfall) and so much more. An hour south is Spain which can easily be a day trip to Figueres ( Home of Dali! ) or anyone of thousands of amazing spots.
I’ve been thinking of dragging out my old photos from Vietnam and Thailand for some posts on one of the blogs, but we shall see? 🙂
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Sold me! Look forward to seeing them 🙂
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No braces or zits?? You were an Adonis and didn’t know it! Love this memory!
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So sweet and beautiful…. funny how our life is truly woven like a tapestry – every nuance, memory, color, action, event and kiss is connected! Thanks for sharing…. Sandy
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Thank you Sandy
You’re absolutely right
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Brought a warm smile to my face. Thank u. Gorgeous pics:) god bless
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❤
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Ha ha ha, i loved the click of your grandpa. its so natural and candid
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He’s a bit of a joker 😛
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